The Three Pillars
Submit to Your Husband

Pillar Two · How you treat him

Submit to Your Husband

If that statement offends you…

we have a much bigger conversation to have.

Hear me out.

Let him lead.

There is so much power in letting go of control.

Turn your brain off.

Trust him.

Respect him.

Honor him.

Lift him up.

Make him feel like a man.

When a man feels trusted, needed, respected, and appreciated, he rises into it.

Many men take incredible pride in providing for, protecting, and taking care of the woman they love.

Let him know you need him.

Let him know he matters.

Let him know his presence changes your life.

Men and women are so incredibly different.

That's biology.

Stop trying to fight it.

Start embracing it.

The beauty of marriage isn't found in trying to become the same.

It's found in celebrating what makes each of you different.

Lean into it.

Water it.

Watch your marriage blossom.

A man thrives when he feels strong.

Capable.

Respected.

Confident in his role.

And when you create space for that…

he'll pour that love, protection, and devotion right back into you.

You want to feel adored?

Spoiled?

Protected?

Then soften.

Let go.

Trust him.

Let him lead.

Because when you make damn sure he feels like a king…

don't be surprised when he spends every day making sure you feel like his queen. 🤍

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